On the outside, you’ve got it all together. The title, the income, the reputation.

And behind closed doors, it’s different. You avoid coming home because the stress never ends. Arguments spark over small things. You feel guilty for not being more patient. And deep down, you wonder how much longer you can hold it all together.


You’re not weak. You’re not broken. You’re a devoted parent doing everything you can in an extraordinary situation. But no one taught you how to balance the relentless demands of caregiving with the pressure of being a high performer in your career. That’s why it feels impossible.
Imagine walking through the door at night without dread.

Imagine having the energy to enjoy your partner, your child, and even some time just for you — without guilt, without resentment. You can still be the leader at work, the caregiver at home, and a whole, fulfilled person in your own right.


I know, because I’ve lived it. I’ve walked the path of raising a son with autism while leading in business. I’ve felt the loneliness, the exhaustion, the weight of responsibility that never lets up.

That’s why I now coach caregivers like you — successful, driven people who need support to navigate life at home without losing themselves in the process.


You don’t have to keep carrying this alone. Together, we’ll create the space for you to breathe again, reconnect with the people you love, and reclaim a life that feels good to live.


Let’s Talk About What’s Possible.

Celebrating my son Matt's 21st birthday

When I ask caregivers what they need most, the answers are almost universal:

  • Respite — a real break from the constant doing

  • Skills & systems — a way to stay organized without losing your mind

  • Financial support — recognition that caregiving is work

  • Emotional validation — to be seen and appreciated

More than 63 million Americans are caregiving today — and most feel invisible.


The mask says, “I’ve got it handled.”


The truth is, we’re not meant to handle it alone.

Here is why you should work with me:

I go beyond surface-level advice by addressing the root causes of caregiver stress and burnout:

Whole-Person Coaching: I help caregivers strengthen all six pillars of family health (physical, cognitive, emotional, financial, mental, and spiritual/energetic), not just one area in isolation.


Practical Strategies + Emotional Support: I combine tools that reduce stress, improve daily routines, and foster resilience with the encouragement caregivers need to feel less alone.


Personal Connection: I’ve lived this journey as the father of a son with autism. I bring empathy, firsthand experience, and hope—not just theory.


Clarity and Confidence: Caregivers leave sessions with actionable steps to protect their health and strengthen their families, instead of feeling stuck in survival mode.

Here is how my approach is different from others:

Lived Experience: I’m not just a coach—I’m a father who has navigated the caregiving journey for decades. I know the fears, doubts, and triumphs from the inside.


Mission-Driven: My work is about purpose, compassion, and community—building sustainable change, not just providing temporary relief.


Caregiver-First Approach: Many autism or special needs services focus on the child. I flip the script—empowering the caregiver first, knowing that a healthier caregiver means a stronger family.


Blend of Coaching & Advocacy: I not only provide mindset and health coaching, I also help families navigate systems and services that often feel overwhelming.

Here is a taste of what you'll get by working with me:

  • Learning to say “no” without guilt.

  • Replacing burnout cycles with self-nurture.

  • Tools for managing fatigue and daily demands.

  • Circumstances Not to Overlook: physical burnout signs.

  • Anchor physical wins.

  • Connection between body resilience and caregiving capacity.

Hi, I'm Drew Deraney

Drew Deraney is a coach, author, and advocate dedicated to empowering caregivers and families of individuals with autism.

As The Caregiver & Family Health Coach, he helps parents and caregivers find balance, build resilience, and care for themselves as compassionately as they care for their loved ones.

Drew is the proud father of three children, including a son with autism, which inspires his mission to provide guidance, education, and community support.

Through coaching, speaking, and his podcast From Caving In To Crushing It, Drew encourages others to live authentically, rise with strength, and lead with purpose.

“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.”

- Buddha

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MEMOIR OF A REFORMED PEOPLE PLEASER

Things happen all around us. It’s inevitable. It’s part of life. Your thoughts about those external circumstances dictate your next course of action. In 2018, four major life events tested me. My divorce (for which I blamed my wife), my job firing (for which I blamed my boss), my son’s mental wellness issues (for which I blamed myself) and the death of my father (for which I blamed God), challenged me to learn more about myself.

For more than twenty years, I wasn’t really living life. I was going through the motions. Did you know that 95% of our brain activity is unconscious? We are on autopilot for most of our waking hours. How many of you have ever felt like your life was on autopilot? How many of you have ever suffered in silence? How many of you are sick and tired of living that way?

I learned that I forgot how to really listen to somebody. I forgot how to be my true self. I lost my authenticity. Empathy abandoned me. I lost my self-identity. I knew I had to do something or else I was going to give up on life. I began telling my story to anybody who would listen. It was cathartic. It helped me heal. I no longer felt alone. I found clarity of purpose in my life. Things I once saw as barriers became opportunities. I took action.

I changed many things in my life, and I’ll share three of them with you here. First, I replaced regret with forgiveness, so I no longer lived in the past. Second, I replaced fear with desire and faith, so I no longer worried about the future. Finally, I replaced my victim mindset with gratitude, so I would be anchored in the present moment. And I’m still a work in progress.

Will you be ready to learn more LATER so you can begin to write your own story instead of having others write it for you? Or are you ready NOW? Choose wisely. There’s no better gift than THE PRESENT!

JOHN HALL

BERNIE DESANTIS

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holding me back

"I recently had the privilege of working with Drew and I can't express enough how transformative the experience has been for me.

Drew helped me gain insights into my own thought patterns and behaviors that were holding me back from achieving my goals and living a more fulfilling life.

I am more self-aware, confident, and focused on my life's purpose thanks to Drew’s insight. I would definitely recommend Drew to anyone seeking to make positive changes in their life and reach their full potential" - M.H.

Recognizing hidden gems in others

"I highly recommend Drew as someone truly extraordinary! He has an exceptional talent for recognizing the hidden gems in others, fearlessly addressing conflicts, and forging strong connections. Despite knowing him for a short time, his remarkable ability to maintain a positive attitude in challenging situations is truly inspiring. Trust me, Drew will make you believe in the power of giving credit where it's due and embracing unwavering integrity. Prepare to be amazed by his incredible story!" - A.M.

Communicating difficult concepts clearly

"Drew is a man who epitomizes the word "integrity", which creates a high level of trust in others toward him. Drew does what he says. He consistently gives credit where credit is due, rather than taking credit when it would be easy to do so. He's a glass-half-full person who can always find the silver lining in a seemingly negative situation. Drew pulls out the good in those with whom he has the pleasure to work. He makes valuable connections/introductions where appropriate, without giving a thought of how those introductions might benefit him. Drew communicates difficult concepts and plans clearly and effectively. And he knows how to address conflict head-on without being overly confrontational. I highly endorse Drew and gladly refer others to Drew on a regular basis." - J.G.

Turning misfortune into passion and purpose

"There is no doubt about it. Drew endured not one but multiple LIFE CHANGING events within an 8-month period of time. He has gone through many things that would have brought most of us to our knees. Yet he did not become worse for it; rather, he turned his misfortune and what life threw at him into a new passion and purpose for his life. Drew created a program for men to help with their mental health and well-being, something which is sorely missed today. He is solutions oriented, a great listener, and compassionate.

Drew used his experiences to write, launch and publish his first book which became a #1 international bestseller and #1 NEW release in multiple categories. His insights come from hard life lessons and his ability to come out the other side more resilient, energized, and enlightened. Drew was a pleasure to work with on his book launch campaign and anyone that meets him will feel his authentic nature and energy. I highly recommend this “reformed people pleaser” as the next speaker for your event or getting into his group if he can fit you in." - M.V.

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